Both Mayavadis and Vaishnavas want to merge into the Supreme
The oneness of the Mayavadi philosophers and the oneness of Vaisnava philosophers are
different. The Mayavadi and Vaisnava philosophers both want to merge into
the Supreme, but the Vaisnavas do not lose their identities. They want to
keep the identity of lover, parent, friend or servant.
In the transcendental world, the servant and master are one. That is
the absolute platform. Although the relationship is servant and master,
both the servant and the served stand on the same platform. That is
oneness.
Srimad Bhagavatam 3.32.11 purport