If we get angry with our children while trying to guide them about right or wrong, is that due to controlling mentality? How can we best guide them?

From Munish P

While growing children..we tend to loose temper quite often assuming we are helping them to differentiate between what is right and what is wrong..given the kind of exposure children have these days outside home. Would you equate that propensity also with tendency to control children and hence loosing temper very often. What alternative we can use while dealing with children? Pl help