Why do scriptures urge women to do vat-savitri puja to get the same husband for seven lives when the goal of life is to attain liberation?
When the soul is an individual, how can the same soul be manifest as Arjuna, Arjuniya gopi and Ramananda Raya?
You said if we do whatever we like we end up disliking ourselves – isn’t varnashrama based on working according to our likings?
Bhagavatam study 70 1.13.51-60 Determination directed towards renunciation brings spiritual elevation