What can we do in a relationship when the other person doesn’t want clarification?

From Shadbhuj gaur P

Based on the Gita-daily article: Don’t just talk about the other – talk with the other
But what if the other person doesnt want to listen to clarification and impose his own assumptions and conclusions by word jugglery, heavy words and shouting(banging in iskcon term) so that the one clarifying bows down to him and accept whatever he says…what if the person doesnt accept a neutral mediator…isnt it best then to avoid such persons….than to patch up…